Some people hate to much the fear and evil in the World, and they feel like they want to help in some way to change a bit of this. You would like to think you can change it all, but that’s not the way it goes.
So you choose to change a little bit of something, and you try to help others get through a bad time in their life. That’s a good thing, but don’t just throw yourself in that idea without thinking that you can't get hurt. It’s a risky business to care for someone and it sometimes pays off, but you have to know where to draw the line in this quest of yours of helping people. Some people don’t want any help or they are just that bad in human relationships that they will just make you hate them for the way they fight you off. Some people are simple. Not in the sense that they are naive but in the sense that they are not feeling a pain that could damage them too much. Those people get healed easily if you know the formula, but the others should be on their own. We are born alone and we die alone. Of course that your family and friends matter, but it’s not that bad of an idea to have a back up plan.
I can’t change the world, I’m just one man. Not even a group can change the world, so we really should stop trying to do that. It’s like I wrote in a recent post, we seek the “I love you” but not the relationship. Let’s see the importance of changing ourselves and helping the way we can, not the way we wish. Baby steps are not that bad, they are actually the most important factor of a human. So, let’s observe how something that small gets us that far and let’s do something less consuming, because we need the power to move on.
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