::: They don't really care

It’s weird and absurd, how people like to involve themselves in your business, acting like they care. But they don’t, they just…don’t have a business of their own.

Even if they have an occupation they are still trying to learn you something, like they’re somehow wise beyond limit. Some people really do have something to teach you, but those persons are rare and they approach you in a different way. The others are just blank people, thinking that they could tell you something about your life. Sometimes you let them, probably test them, and you say “wait a minute, hear me out”. When you do that, they suddenly change their tone, they’re either set on proving you wrong or they show that they really didn’t care to begin with. For example, let’s take the crowd, the angry mob. If someone yells “get him!”, they will, even tough they don’t know you. The psychology behind this has two sides: people like to talk a lot abut nothing and act like they know something and second, people are mean. Not all, not all in the same way, but a lot of them are just mean, they like to see someone hurt. But they are also good, so if you say “hey, let me explain my life story”, they’ll probably listen to you (if you have the talent of speech), and you’ll see that they don’t really want to know your life story or your problem, maybe they’ll have a “now I understand” for you, but they don’t really care.

Another example are friends. You surely noticed that everyone stays by your side when you’re happy or famous, but no one wants to know you when you’re sad or hurt. Sure, it’s not their problem, but what about the people who said that they are your close friends? It doesn’t matter if they know you’re not that messed up in general, a bad period for you will make them indifferent, the thing that they already were and you didn’t quite understood it then.

Some care, a few, they are as rare as those who can really teach you something, but we’re not talking about them. The problem is that your neighbors, your teachers or some other group, thinks that they can judge you. People talk, that’s all. It doesn’t mean anything when they try to enforce uppon you they’re own point of view on a situation, because they don’t really care.